A man with positive internet dating experiences

comment from Luanne: Thank you for sharing Pete. I wanted to bring
this to the front of my blog

I have to disagree. During my internet dating life, I met
several women within 24 hours of "meeting" and talking to them.
The course of action was as follows.

1) Engage in some form of contact through the site.

2) If there was mutual interest in getting to know more, ask if we
could move the discussion to the phone if she was comfortable with
that (very willing to just continue with emails too)

3) If phone conversation went well, look to set up a time to meet.

The sites are meant for people to MEET. If you linger too long
online, then you start to try to read into little things.
"He didn;t answer my email today", I IM'd him and he
didn't respond". You have doubts before you even met.

There are some bad apples out there, but i would say that if
women learned how to ask better questions on the phone part
of the process, you could just go mainly on instinct. If he
has trouble giving you clear answers or there are a lot of
"ummmms" and "I don't knows". He's probably hiding something.

The list posted just doesn't work for me. I really would like
people to have the same experience I have had recently, which
was fairly positive.