How do I start a local singles group?

If you are interested in starting a singles group in your area, the best place to find members are through the personal ads and by word of mouth. The more you publicize it, the more people will hear about it and want to sign up. Singles groups work best for singles who tend to be more into socializing and lots of laughter and good times.

I recommend yahoo groups

Read more about how it's done here.

Red Flags to look out for when searching for Mr. Right

Here are some red flags to look out for with dating men on line! This was intended to be funny...Men, if you read this don't blast me for letting your secrets out.

1. If a man wants to meet you in person the first day you chat, bad
sign! it is normal to exercise caution when meeting a stranger, which goes for the man as well, that should be suspect right off the bat.

2. If a man will only give you his cell phone number = probably married.

3. If a man says "I'm separated" = what he means is physically separated (she is probably still at the office).

4. If a man says he "travels a lot on business" = that is set up for days/weeks of no communication with you.

5. If a man wants to see racy photos of you before he knows your name, run the other way.

6. If a man wants to bring a digital camera on your first date, you better sign a release first cause they will probably be shown to all his construction worker buddies the following week. :-)

7. If he gives you the wrong telephone number?

SWF must love farmin'

Farmer writes personal ad in cornfield. People are so darn creative. I thought this was pretty clever :-)

Read article here:

Top ten things every girl must own

Dress to impress, show your stuff, be yourself.

Sure, you've got the perfect shade of lipstick and the little black
dress... but is that all you need? Hardly.

1. A fabulous photo of yourself
We all have that photo: The one where your smile, hair, and (let's be honest) bod all come together in one sexy little package. Post that sucker at eye level on your fridge so your male guest can't help but notice it as he checks out if you have beer (see item #5). What he says: "Is that you?" What he means: "Daa-aamn, girl, you're hotter than I realized!"

2. A pretty pair of heels
Admit it, you feel sexy when you slip on a pair of nice heels.

3. An Eminem CD
It shows you have an open mind and aren't easily offended—
and that's music to any man's ears.

4. A great pickup line... and a way to blow 'em off
"Sorry, I don't think the guy I'm seeing would appreciate it." Sure, it's a lie, but it'll let him down easy—without destroying his ego or making him think you're a jerk.

5. A six-pack of good bottled beer
A prepared single girl is ready to host and toast at any time. If you want to make a guy-guest feel at home go for Sam Adams Boston Lager or Corona.

6. Bathroom reading
Consider Newsweek or Cosmopolitan (hey, this may be the only time he's a captive audience and can learn a few things).

7. A business card
Just classier is all. You can order 250 full-color business cards for free from vistaprint.com. Hey, it's better than a napkin, plus it fits nicely into his wallet.

8. Earplugs
Prepare thyself for surprise snorers with a pair of earplugs stashed in your nightstand. (2 pairs of Mack's brand self-described "snore-proof" plugs sell for
$2.79 at cvs.com.) Good tip. I think I'll get some for myself.

9. A straight male friend on your speed-dial
While your female friends may have good intentions, if you really want to know if you should call that guy, save the guesswork and go to someone who's been there, done that.

10. A condom
If you don't want it to break, you buy it.)

Some men think women are clueless

OMG!!! ok.......so I've chatted online with this person maybe three times and of course, he immediately wants to see my webcam? What? Does he think I'm a fraud like him? He doesn't believe I look like the picture I have posted on my profile? Isn't my picture good enough. So I see this person logged on for the past few days, he doesn't say a single word to me, nothing and now I get this message today which appears to be something he is sending to EVERYONE on his messenger list. How lame and let me tell you........how romantic!!! NOT!!! lololol

Here is his note to me:

Hi pretty, how are you doing today? hope fine.If I was blind, you would make me see. If I was deaf, you would make me hear; and if I was dumb, a word would come out of the boundaries of my lips..am very happy to have a friend loke you (sent me one of those computer roses)

Awh.......isn't that sweet.........lmao.... yeah right.

Internet dating

What is your favorite Internet dating sight?

Do you think they're worth your time? Your hard earned money? What are your thoughts on the many internet dating sights? Do you get responses? Do you feel like that special someone might be passing you up, just thinking they might find someone just a little bit better? I know I do.

I have gotten very skeptical about placing my personal ad on the various sights, but I did and now, I swear to God, the men from Africa, mostly white (oddly enough in my opinion) are all professing their undying love for me? Where's that little emoticon (or whatever they call it - lol) that has the mouth wide open shaking their head back and forth. Oh my........the nerve of them. One guy even asked me to send him 100.00. We had been chatting maybe two weeks. Now mind you, this guy supposedly owns his own company and he's "begging" me for 100.00 I'm like, does he think that I need a man THAT badly *rolls my eyes*

So anyway, I have my personal ad on match.com as well, but I think that my little town/zip code is really not in their database, because I'm not an unattractive person, and I'm alot of fun to be around.......or so I thought I was. I keep tellin' guys, all I need is some extracurricular activity in the bedroom and lots of it and I'll lose weight, no problem. One day, they'll be saying......dang, I let that one slip right on by. lol I tangent again :-)

Luanne